Monday, January 14, 2008

Boys

Well, I started my day off this morning with Cade having yet another severe asthma attack. . . We are starting to have this occurence one too many times in the Allen household. He just coughs and coughs so hard that he finally throws up. It is great fun. I assume you all know that I am kidding about the fun part. Anyway, he is on 2 medications, and 2 inhalers for his asthma, and still having quite a significant number of flare ups. So I made the desicion today to schedule him an appointment with an allergist. He goes on the 31st of January. I don't know what else to do at this point. Remember Mr. Cade in your prayers. . .

Then on to my other problem child. . . .These boys are going to be the death of me. . .I am serious. Ian has struggled on and off in school since the beginning of the fourth grade. So this year has been an eye opener for him. Fifth grade is the year where they "are getting you ready for middle school". I can't believe that I just wrote that. . . My baby, my first born, is going to be in middle school this year. . .in 2008. . . If we make it through this difficult time we are having, that is. His report card wasn't the best. . .I expect alot from my kids though. They are smart kids. Ian, especially, just tends to be a little preoccupied. We have tried and tried to get it through his head how important grades are, and that football isn't everything. Wonder where he got that thought perception from???? Anyway, to make a very long story short. . . We got report cards, not good, Ian has been grounded from all fun things in his life. . . .Not helping situation. . .so this morning. . .The Parent Teacher conference. We learned quite a few things during this hour with the teacher. . .Ian also got to be present during this conference, which I thought was a very good move on the teacher's part. Ian doesn't like to dissapoint anyone, especially James. . .so I am hoping and Praying that after today. . .things will get better. I think now with our eyes open to the "situation" and knowing the teacher is on our side. . . We are going to get through this. . .and along with lots of prayer. . . So remember Ian also in your prayers. . .

Just felt the need to blog this. . .it is almost therapy for me. . . I think it is good to blog the "not so perfect" things in our lives also. . .Keeps us real. . . : ) trust in the lord

2 comments:

Nicole said...

we will certainly be praying for both ian and cade. i think you said it perfectly...everyone wants to post only the good things when we all know that none of us have perfect lives and everyone faces trials and tribulations. the good and the bad aspects of our lives are what us such unique individuals and also what make our blogs easy for others to relate to. i know when i read about the mishaps of other families it makes me realize how normal i really am and that i am not the only one coping with such issues. love you

Tanja said...

You are right about blogging the bad stuff, too. We're not Wonder Women, here! And it wears me out to pretend to be. Makes me think of the lyrics from a Casting Crowns song off their Lifesong album called Stained Glass Masquerade. See if you can find it online and if not I'll e-mail it. We're all just flawed and ought to be able to admit that and be loved anyway. Hope your day improves and those boys give you a break! :-)